Part of me is incredibly sad that it is September. My daughter is turning five in a few short weeks and that just seems too old. Between that and the fact that she started preschool a few weeks ago, its clear she isn't a baby anymore.
But they are so, SO many things to celebrate right now. Sometimes, when you celebrate your victories, people are quick to judge. They might think that you are bragging. Or that you think you are better than them. Or perhaps you may not feel you have something to celebrate. You may think that your accomplishments mean less because you didn't do as much/run as far/run as fast/insert-unfair-comparison-of-your-chosing here.
FORGET about the comparison. Own your own story. CELEBRATE those victories.
Things we are celebrating in our house this week:
-I didn't kill anyone during our first week of homeschooling--Yay! And the kids seemed relatively happy.
-Brad and I managed to slide away for a bike ride together. It was nice to sweat together, its been awhile since we did that. And I won't mention how he easily kept up with me on his mountain bike, when he hasn't been on it ALL summer . . . because that would be a comparison and that's what we AREN'T doing. (But I will say DARN HIM for being so speedy!!) And we are doing our first tri together next weekend!
-I logged a ton of bike miles over the long weekend -- 73!
-First double digit run is in the books for the fall distance season. It wasn't fast and it wasn't pretty, but its done and its all mine and I will celebrate it! Its also worth noting that for the first 10+ run of the season, I was in a happy headspace based from all the things I've learned in the past year. Mind > Matter always seems to factor in on the long run.
-Still on cloud nine about being chosen as a Team Tough Chik ambassador. I love my team, and what I've learned about myself since joining them.
-We reached 200 followers on our facebook page.
-I'm two months out from my first International Distance Triathlon. Instead of being scared to death ALL THE TIME, I oscillate between being scared to death and being stoked because I know I could COMPLETE it today if I had to. So that's something.
Those are the big things. As a family, we have little celebrations all the time. Yay, we made it through that lesson without any complaints! Yay, we made it to school on time! Etc. etc. etc.
The point is, don't be afraid to celebrate things. No matter how big or how small, each and EVERY victory is worth celebrating. Because it is a part of your story.
Which brings me to the fun part of this post. I'm notorious for comparing myself to others. Heck, I even did it in this post by stating hubby was just as fast as me on his mountain bike. I often feel like I'm slower than I should be, bigger than I should be, weaker than I should be, etc. etc. etc.
But, as Roosevelt said, "Comparison is the thief of joy." I love this quote. I say it to myself whenever I find myself getting wrapped up in the "I should be faster/stronger/thinner/blah blah blah" warp. A few weeks ago a fellow Tough Chik posted a link to a leather bracelet that has a metal plate with this saying on it from Michelle V Custom Jewelery on Etsy. I'm not a big fan of leather and I'm not much of a jewelry wearer, but I had to have one.
I love this thing. Its original and beautiful and every time I look at it, it reminds me to be proud of where I am and how far I've come. It reminds me to celebrate every small victory. So I want you to have one too!! We're giving away one Comparison Is the Thief of Joy custom leather cuff bracelet from Michelle V Custom Jewelery. (Mine is pictured below with my RoadID slim)
You can earn an entries in the following ways:
-Like Michelle V's Facebook Page (2 entries)
-Like Michelle V's Page on Etsy (2 entries)
-Follow Life Beyond the Chaos on Twitter (1 entry)
-Follow Life Beyond the Chaos of Facebook (1 entry)
- Link up this giveaway on your facebook page, twitter page, or blog (2 entries EACH)
-Post a comment below letting me know what YOU are celebrating this week/weekend (1 entry) and also let me know how many entries you have in total.
If you just can't wait, or you find something else you love in Michelle V's Etsy store, she has generously offered the coupon code LIFEBEYOND2259, good for 20% off to Life Beyond the Chaos readers. Happy shopping--I must say I love her stuff :-)
This giveaway will be open from now until 9:30am, Friday September 13th. At that time, Random Number Generator will be used to chose a winner.
Good luck!!
Ok, let's see here:
ReplyDeleteI liked Michelle's page on facebook
I liked her page on etsy
I follow Life Beyond the Chaos on facebook
My accomplishment I am celebrating is: this coming monday I celebrate the completion of my 50 day running challege! woo!!
(facebook name if you need it is Jessica Burke Langston) :)
If I added right, that's 9 entries. I'm celebrating surviving my oldest's first week of first grade. I wasn't sure I was going to make it :)
ReplyDeleteI liked Michelle's FB page.
ReplyDeleteI liked her Etsy page.
I follow Life Beyond Chaos on FB.
So ... 5? No, wait, this entry:
I'm celebrating surviving work this week. It was brutal. And drama at home didn't help.
So, 6.
Hi!
ReplyDeleteI liked her page and yours on FB, liked her page on Etsy, and I'm already following you on Twitter (@GinaMooney).
I'm celebrating that my running/weight loss story was featured in a magazine this week! :)
7 entries (I think?)
Thanks!
Gina
That's awesome Gina! What mag?
DeleteSuch cool bracelets!
ReplyDelete(2)Liked Michelle's FB page
(2)Liked Michelle's Etsy shop
(1)Following Life Beyond the Chaos on FB
(1)I'm posting in the comments here! :)
I'm celebrating the start of the school year here in So Cal, as well as my return to the pool and running after a after an unplanned break. :)
So looks like a total of 6 entries...pick me! pick me!!
Wishing you the best of luck on your first Intl Tri...you'll rock it, Toughie!!
(FB name is Laura Munn Moffett)
11 entries including this one. Celebrating the start if the Biggest Loser Challenge at work this week. I have a team of three people and a coach. I was able to get up THREE TIMES this week to make it to the 0530 swim class, getting up at 0320 is a challenge (we live an hour away).
ReplyDelete-Like Michelle V's Facebook Page (2 entries) from Lisa Pokorny Couch
ReplyDelete-Follow Life Beyond the Chaos on Twitter (1 entry) @LRuns4cupcakes
-Follow Life Beyond the Chaos of Facebook (1 entry) from Lisa Pokorny Couch
Total: 4 entries
I like/follow LBTC on FB and Twitter and like Michelle's FB page. This week, I am celebrating 2 awesome speed work sessions as I count down the days until marathon #3. Maybe I"ll finally break 5 hours! HA.
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I "liked" both facebook pages.
ReplyDelete8 entries...all but twitter. I am celebrating my first half marathon Saturday! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm celebrating finding your blog through a friends post and loving it already! I also liked your page and Michelle V's (that's 3 entries total). I've never heard this quote before, but I need to remember it - when I really think about it, I am constantly comparing myself to others...
ReplyDeleteThanks for offering this giveaway! I am a fellow touch chik, so I saw your post on our fb page. I should have a total of 7 entries (2,2,1,1,1) for liking and following all the pages, plus leaving this comment. I'm celebrating this week bc Monday was my last day of work! I am officially an unemployed pro athlete now, and I am loving every minute of it!
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